好难得 (Rare)

A week of September has passed, and I am slowly picking myself up from where I fell down. It's not difficult like I imagined but I'm sure I'll be strong enough to get through this, with all the people I love and love me around. ♥

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Had an awesome day out today with ITE mates as well as a short karaoke-session in a long time. Sang so many songs and also found many new songs which represented my feelings at that moment. This song captured my feelings at that time, it's called 好难得 by 丁当. And the lyrics are:

爱让我们变得比单身愚笨
也让我们拥有从未的完整
问也不问就越陷越深
如果不是那个吻那年会更冷
相信变成了某种特殊天分
缘分只是最气人的天真
想念总是在夜里狂奔
特别像他着魔的眼神

好难得你遇见了对的人
难得你很认真不想太多去奋不顾身
好难得你爱上了对的人
可惜他不是你的可能

我们都曾以为爱就像青春
原来最难爱过的竟是黄昏
我们都爱过某个诗人
可是诗人都是平凡的人

好难得你遇见了对的人
难得你很认真不想太多去奋不顾身
好难得你爱上了对的人
可惜他不是你的可能

好难得我们遇见了对的人
难得好几辈子的好运才有几回完整
好难得我们爱上了对的人
就算他不是她最后的人
也祝他更勇敢爱别人

This part of the lyrics struck into my heart:

"好难得你遇见了对的人

难得你很认真不想太多去奋不顾身
好难得你爱上了对的人
可惜他不是你的可能"

Translated into English, it means:

"It is rare that you get to meet the right person

It is rare that you are serious and put in all your efforts, overlooking other factors

It is rare that you are in love with the right person

But too bad he / she is not possibly yours."

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Many times in our lives, we meet someone whom we can click with almost immediately, and when we start talking, it feels like we have known each other since the previous life. I myself have come across many people like that too, gained some and lost some. But sometimes, we don't really care enough to let the other party know that they have such important places in our lives, or we do care, but we don't show it enough.

Life isn't always smooth-sailing and you won't always meet people like that wherever you go. So you have to learn to treasure such people when you have them in your lives. People like that comes in many forms, your parents, your relatives, your friends or even your other half.

Like the song mentioned, it is rare that you will meet the right one, or the right friends, so hold them close to your heart when you meet them. Don't be stingy in giving them showers of love from yourself because they may be willing to do just as much for you. I'm experiencing the regret of not always letting and reassuring the people around me know that I'm thankful for their existence, and I have seen how a simple "I love you" or "You have a special place in heart" can salvage a friendship, relationship or marriage even at the last straw. SO DON'T BE STINGY AND START SHOWING YOUR LOVE. ♥ Time to wear your heart on your sleeve? ♥